Wednesday, 24 December 2008
Monday, 22 December 2008
Twelve More

The same picnic table I showed yesterday, looking even sillier.



Sunday, 21 December 2008
Pile It On



Today's project was a long horizontal tunnel with a vertical access from the middle of the pile. It was probably over 12 feet long, and as you will see, large enough in diameter that no one had any trouble getting through, including Dear Man.



The saddest part of all this play is that the tunnels have to be broken in before we head inside for the day. Church personnel have requested that of us, and, as they are being gracious enough to let us play on their property, we oblige. But can you imagine the fun it would be to have the tunnels stay and build a whole network of forts, nooks, tunnels, escape routes...
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Oh, and then there are the sad days when not only a snow plow shows up at the parking lot, but also a dump truck. That means they're clearing the entire pile away because it's begun to take up too much parking space and there's more snow expected in the near future. Sigh. At least it involves tractors.
Lots of the White Stuff Coming Down (Little Man DID pray for a White Christmas)

Well, in the past 24 hours we have had enough snow to cover the picnic table even higher than it was in Little Man's photo. There must be almost 18 inches of snow sitting on the table top now!
So, while some of our CM friends are enjoying nature walks and studies of winter weeds, non-flowering plants, and more, here's what we're enjoying:

Friday, 19 December 2008
Self Education
With perfect timing, Christine has posted an item about Self Education on her blog, The Real Life Home, as part of her Charlotte Mason Basics series on Fridays. You might like to head over to The Real Life Home and have your appetite whetted for the meeting that's to come. As always, Christine is direct, humourous, and engaging, while offering lots of valuable insight into the subject.
Other than this, I'm pretty sure this blog will be quiet until after Christmas, or maybe into the new year, so, on behalf of the entire leadership team:
Wednesday, 17 December 2008
What Would You Choose?
Several months ago we had the children go through the playroom with us and each was allowed to choose three toys to keep. The rest were going to go to the local thrift store or, if not suitable for play anymore, to the dump. We guided them through the process carefully, making sure they knew that puzzles and books were not included in their limit, and that a 'toy' was being pretty broadly defined: dolls, for example, would include a couple of dolls, a selection of well-liked doll-clothes and bedding.
We went through the selection time slowly, having one child at a time choose an item (grouping) to keep.
What was the first thing that Little Man chose to set aside on the keep pile?
Not the Lego. Not the wooden train set. Not even his tool bench. No.
It was the homemade cardboard armour. Already a year old, well worn, and much repaired. Made from an empty diaper box, some duct tape, and spray paint. That was what he chose first.
What a precious thing that was to witness.
Tuesday, 16 December 2008
On Memorization
This fall my children and I worked on memorizing a parable. Sixteen verses of Scripture. Not a huge chunk, by any means, but one of several longer portions that we've done as a family. Our memorization method was simple. I read the passage out loud every morning after breakfast, and again (most days) after lunch. Sometimes I'd read it a couple of times, but mostly just once. When it was quite familiar, I would sometimes pause part way through a line and let them finish the sentence, which they did quite easily, quite naturally, and quite happily. By the end of a month my two eldest children (12 and 6) and I could recite the passage without error. Now, almost 2 months after completing our memorization, we can still do it!
This week there is a new post on the ChildLight USA blog on memorization. Tina Fillmer has written an interesting piece entitled Memorization "Learnt Without Labour". I hope you will take a couple of minutes to read her article. It fit so well with my family's experience this fall that I felt I ought to share the news.
If you're interested, you can read about my family's experiences memorizing the parable by visiting PeaceLedge and clicking on the 'memorization' topic on the left.
New Armour for Our Little Knight
Little Man used this armour daily, completely unconcerned by the pictures and words on the box; he was a knight and there was nothing that would stop him from doing knightly things.
When Dear Man and I saw how committed he was to this armour, we decided to spring for some silver spray paint to make it more knightly. We took the cardboard into the garage, sprayed, allowed it to dry, and out came this:


But there was a slight problem. The armour was difficult to put on and involved bodily contortions that no knight should have to subject himself to. So, My Girl made some alterations and we then had this:


In early December our family celebrated St. Nicholas Day. (More about that in another post.) The highlight of the morning for Little Man was opening up a large bundle which held a new helmet and breastplate, and a note indicating that there was more to the surprise in the playroom downstairs. He raced to the basement and found our life-sized stuffed golden retriever puppy sporting a shield and sword. My Girl once again stepped in to assist and got him all decked out in his new equipment.



Friday, 5 December 2008
The Science of Relations
We consider that education is the science of relations, or more fully, that education considers what relations are proper to a human being, and in what ways these several relations can best be established; that a human being comes into the world with capacity for many relations; and that we, for our part, have two chief concerns - first, to put him in the way of forming these relations by presenting the right idea at the right time, and by forming the right habit upon the right idea; and, secondly, by not getting in the way and so preventing the establishment of the very relations we seek to form. (p. 64-65)
And this:
Half the teaching one hears and sees is more of less obtrusive. The oral lesson and the lecture, with their accompanying notes, give very little scope for the establishment of relations with great minds and various minds. (p. 65)
And this:
What we are concerned with is the fact that we personally have relations with all that there is in the present, all that there has been in the past, and all that there will be in the future - with all above us and all about us - and that fullness of living, expansion, expression, and serviceableness, for each of us, depend upon how far we apprehend these relationships and how many of them we lay hold of. (p. 185-186)
Not to forget this:
The idea that vivifies teaching in the Parents' Union is that Education is the Science of Relations; by which phrase we mean that children come into the world with a natural 'appetency,' to use Coleridge's word, for, and affinity with, all the material of knowledge; for interest in the heroic past and in the age of myths; for a desire to know about everything that moves and lives, about strange places and strange peoples; for a wish to handle material and to make; a desire to run and ride and row and do whatever the law of gravitation permits. Therefore we do not feel it is lawful in the early days of a child's life to select certain subjects for his education to the exclusion of others; to say he shall not learn Latin, for example, or shall not learn Science; but we endeavour that he shall have relations of pleasure and intimacy established with as many as possible of the interests proper to him; not learning a slight or incomplete smattering about this or that subject, but plunging into vital knowledge, with a great field before him which in all his life he will not be able to explore. In this conception we get that 'touch of emotion' which vivifies knowledge, for it is probable that we feel only as we are brought into our proper vital relations. (p. 222-223)
Charlotte Mason has much to say about the Science of Relations, and how education is achieved through the student developing those relations for him or herself, rather than having the teacher interpret things for the student.
Some day I'll write more of my own thoughts about this, but for now, enjoy Charlotte's words.
All quotations in this post are from School Education by Charlotte M. Mason, volume 3 in her 6 volume series on education, which you can read online.
Wednesday, 3 December 2008
It's My Party
The first portion of the evening was spent talking about Education as the Science of Relations, how it's not really 'how much children know' that matters as 'how many things they care about' because the things they care about are the things they will continue to learn about through life. (I haven't put that nearly as beautifully as Charlotte Mason does, nor as nicely as it was described by several women last night, but I'll see if I can get a terrific quote about the Science of Relations for a future post).
During that discussion, my friend Christine, host of The Real Life Home blog, painted a word picture which I've been mulling over ever since. She described home school (or education in general, as CM saw it) as a party which she is hosting and has invited guests to attend. Her guests include her children/students and the subject areas/books/authors/historical figures which make up the 'content' of the school. It is the role of the hostess at any party to make sure that the guests meet each other, and to ensure that those guests who have like interests are directed toward each other in particular.
I liked the image that brought to my mind's eye - my specially chosen temporary guests (living books of biography, history, literature, poetry, and historical fiction, even math and copywork) each with a wealth of insight to share, stories to tell, friendship to offer to my other guests, those who I have chosen for life; guests circulating through my home, available and ready to offer companionship and confidences; myself making introductions between them, drawing out details from one which will engage the other so that I can move on and make other guests feel at home.
A good hostess doesn't dominate the conversation, interpret one guest's comments for another, interrupt with her own thoughts on topics which her guests are more qualified to speak. She steps aside and lets the guests determine the direction of their relationship on their own. In the same way, a good teacher doesn't get in the way between the living books and the students, but allows the students to interact with the books at their own level of need and interpretation, trusting the Holy Spirit, the Giver of all knowledge and wisdom, to provide the right combination at the right time.
The party isn't about me. It's about my guests, about broad introductions leading to lasting relationships. That is, to me, a lovely parallel picture of a liberal education, the kind of education we are trying to achieve in our home.
Monday, 1 December 2008

The Lord is my Rock and my Salvation. The Lord is the Keeper of my life. I will fear no evil. The Lord upholds me by His right hand. He will not let my foot slip. The Lord works righteousness and justice for all the oppressed.His Word, The Word, Life-giving Word is hidden in my heart. When my thoughts are too much for my own words, I can ponder His Words. Thank God.
Sunday, 23 November 2008
What Do Charlotte Mason and "Naked and Blue" Have to Do With Each Other?
How do we set our priorities for the educational pursuits of each day? Which tasks are 'musts', which skills have to be in place (and when)?
For some interesting - and entertaining - ponderings on these thoughts, hop over to the ChildLight USA blog, where Sandy Rusby Bell has written a post entitled "Naked and Blue at My Back Door".
Monday, 17 November 2008
New Nature Study Post at ChildLight USA
Wednesday, 12 November 2008
Adventures in Colorado Springs (oops...Odyssey)
Our children have since developed an enjoyment of the stories, too, listening to them in the vehicle as we drive to visit Grandma and Grandpa, go on holidays, and so on.
One summer we borrowed an almost complete collection of audio tapes from friends of ours to keep us going on the 60 hour (return) drive to Saskatchewan for a family reunion. For some strange reason, the portable tape player we were using (we didn't have a built-in unit, only a radio) had a lot of static when it played the tapes, unless My Girl held the antenna just so. Part way through the trip, the antenna snapped off, and there was great sadness, as we weren't sure we could handle listening to the stories with all the extra, very irritating static. Then My Girl discovered that if she used her hand to hold the base where the antenna used to be attached, there was no more static. (Does that mean that she was working as an antenna?) Her poor little 8 year old body was slightly twisted in its seat to maintain the position, but she was determined that we would hear those stories! As it happened, with the Odyssey tapes and several other selections from the library, it wasn't until the last few hours of the drive home that we started listening to repeats! (And yes, we did have 'no tape times', too.)
This past summer, we went to Colorado for the biannual Renovare Covenant Retreat. That was a terrific experience, but today my focus is on something else. Any of you who are familiar with Focus on the Family probably already know that their headquarters is in Colorado Spring, Colorado, and that they have a Welcome Centre on their campus which includes a bookstore (!!!); an interactive Kids Corner, modeled after "Whit's End" and the town of Odyssey, with a Discovery Emporium, puppet stage and costumes, reading area, KYDS' Radio Studio; and a soda shop.
We had anticipated a visit to the campus, a chance for the children to see where the stories are created, and maybe pick up a couple of good deals in the bookstore. What we hadn't anticipated was spending over 4 hours there, exploring, munching (a very reasonably priced) lunch at the soda shop, and simply enjoying ourselves.
Here are the highlights from that day for the children:
A 3-storey twisty slide from above the top level of the Visitor's Centre into the lower level where the children's area was. There were height restrictions on the slide, so a very sorrowful Brown-Eyed Boy was only allowed to watch the others pop out the bottom, and My Man had to console himself with observing also, being 1" too tall!
A "Narnia" room, with information about the recording of Focus's Radio Dramas of the Chronicles of Narnia and a life sized wardrobe you can walk through into Narnia where there is a full wall mural of that wonderful country.
The KYDS radio station. We were able to sign up for an actual recording time, were given scripts to prepare, and then recorded our own "Adventure's in Odyssey - KYDS Radio" episode. My Girl and Dear Man had speaking parts, Little Man and I did Foley, which is in-studio sound effects like horse gallop sounds made from coconut halves, running an electric pencil sharpener, etc. Brown-Eyed Boy had the difficult job of being silent (although he did make a couple of guest sounds). The studio technicians mixed our recording with pre-recorded portions, and half an hour later we were able to take home our very own CD with that episode, featuring our own talent!!!
Dear Man and Little Man, preparing their scripts


We were thoroughly impressed with Focus's hospitality, their care for the people who come to visit, who support, who call and ask for advice, etc. This day will live for a long time in our family memories.
Tuesday, 11 November 2008
Reality: A Link
What Do You Need?
A little voice drifts up the stairs, a touch of the imperative in the tone:
"Mom, can you come here?"
I sigh (yes, I admit it) and return the call:
"What do you need?" (Did I manage to keep the impatience out of my voice?)
"You."
A simple reply. It melts my heart. How could anyone say no to that request? He doesn't need something. He needs someone. He needs ME.
So I go.
Sunday, 9 November 2008
A Rule-of-Thumb for Family Read-Alouds
My children are well-spaced in age: the oldest is six years ahead of the second, who is, in turn, three years ahead of the third. That means that their read-aloud selections can't always be combined. Much subject area reading we do together, with My Girl and Little Man reading from and listening to the same books on Ancient Egypt, for example. But then My Girl gets deeper content from books that are selected to challenge her more, both in their reading level and in the maturity level at which they address the subject. When I'm reading those more advanced books with My Girl, Little Man and Brown-Eyed Boy are usually off doing their own thing - usually playing 'dog and owner' or 'knights' in the basement. Sometimes they're still in the room with us, playing, colouring, etc., but these books are not the ones they are required to sit for and narrate. (And no, Brown-Eyed Boy doesn't do any narrations at all yet, and won't for a couple more years.)Here's a little rule of thumb for parents: If you can't squeeze your kids into the same size underwear, don't try to squeeze them into the same size book! In doing that, you end up watering down the reading material to accommodate the lowest common denominator - the four-year-old - and boring the nine-year-old. The solution is to read to them individually, especially if there is more than three years' difference in their ages...
A father in New Jersey, after hearing me suggest reading to children separately, interjected, "Excuse me, but doesn't that take longer?" Yes, it does, sir. Parenting is not supposed to be a time-saving experience. Parenting is time-consuming, time-investing - but not time-saving.Jim Trelease, The Read-Aloud Handbook, p. 40.
This past month has seen a milestone change for us: Little Man and Brown-Eyed Boy no longer have the same bed-time. So, after Little Man is in his pj's, teeth brushed, clothes put away, and so on, he comes down to the living room while Dear Man finishes tucking in Brown-Eyed Boy. Then Little Man, My Girl and I curl up on the couch together and read until it's time for Little Man to head up for bed. We started this new routine with a book that I hoped would appeal to both children, although on very different levels: The Hobbit. At first I had planned to read it just with My Girl, thinking that it might be too difficult for the younger child, but a dear friend suggested that I try it with him, and, I'm now thankful to say, I took that advice. Both children love this story! I find I have to be very careful about where we stop the reading for the night, so as to avoid the scary parts being left hanging, but so far it has worked very well. (Once or twice we've had to do a little bit of reading at lunch to get through the intense scene and set it up for a good place to stop at bed-time - that's been an effective strategy.)
Two nights ago we had a late evening, so bed-time reading was put aside for the night. As I kissed Little Man good-night, he said to me, "I'm sad that we didn't get to hear The Hobbit tonight." "I know," I replied. "I'm really enjoying reading it with you, and I miss it too when we don't do it." "I wish it would go on forever. I love that story. I don't want it to end!" His face was alight with pleasure, even at the thought of the story!
So, in this instance I'm not following Jim Trelease's rule of thumb, but it seems to be working anyway. I know that there will be many read-alouds that we can't combine this way, but for now, I'm going to enjoy this shared experience.
That touches on the 'read-aloud' part of the quotation from Jim Trelease, but I hope to give a lot more thought and attention to the second paragraph - the 'parenting' part. Then again, maybe that's too big for me to tackle.
Monday, 3 November 2008
Fields of Home















Saturday, 1 November 2008
Links from ChildLight USA
- Education is Formation, Not Information - a ChildLight USA blog post by Naomi Heidorn
- Teaching Nature Study - Listen online to the 2007 ChildLight USA Charlotte Mason Educational Conference lecutre given by Deborah Dobbins and Holly Ann Dobbins. This link will bring you to the ChildLight USA website, where this lecture is being featured at the top of the page. Click on the "Listen Now" button.
Friday, 31 October 2008
Mega Memory Month Comes to an End
For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire men to work in his vineyard. He agreed to pay them a denarius for the day and sent them into his vineyard.
About the third hour he went out and saw others standing in the marketplace doing nothing. He told them, "You also go and work in my vineyard, and I will pay you whatever is right." So they went.
He went out again about the sixth hour and the ninth hour and did the same thing. About the eleventh hour he went out and found still others standing around. He asked them, "Why have you been standing here all day long doing nothing?"
"Because no one has hired us," they answered.
He said to them, "You also go and work in my vineyard."
When evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, "Call the workers and pay them their wages, beginning with the last ones hired and going on to the first."
The workers who were hired about the eleventh hour came, and each received a denarius. So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more,. bBut each one of them also received a denarius. When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner. "These men who were hired last worked only one hour," they said, "and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day."
But he answered one of them, "Friend, I am not being unfair to you. Didn't you agree to work for a denarius? Take your pay and go. I want to give the man who was hired last the same as I gave you. Don't I have the right to do what I want with my own money? Or are you envious because I am generous?"
So the last will be first, and the first will be last.
Matthew 20:1-16
My Girl's Final Mega Memory Month Recitation
“For the kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out early in the morning to hire men to work in the vineyard. He agreed to pay them a denarius for the day and sent them into his vineyard.
“He went out again About the third hour he went out and saw others standing in the market-place. He said to them ‘You also go and work in my vineyard and I will pay you whatever is right.’ So they went.
“He went out again about the sixth hour and the ninth hour and did the same thing. About the eleventh hour he went out again and found still others standing around. doing nothing. He said to them, ‘Why have you been standing here all day long doing nothing?’
“‘Because no one has hired us,’ they answered.
“He said to them, ‘You also go and work in my vineyard.’
“When evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, ‘Call the workers and pay them there their wages, beginning with the last ones hired and going on to the first.’
So (when) The workers who where hired about the eleventh hour came and each received a denarius. So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more. But each one of them also received a denarius. When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner. ‘These men who were hired last only worked one hour,’ they said, ‘and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and heat of the day.’
But he answered one of them ‘Friend, I am not being unfair to you. Didn’t you agree to work for a denarius? Take your pay and go. I want to give the man who was hired last the same as I gave you. Don’t I have the right to do what I want with my own money? Or are you envious because I am generous?’”
So the last will be first, and the first will be last.
Matthew 20:1-16
Thursday, 30 October 2008
Juncos are Back
At lunch, yesterday alone, we saw:

finches (5)

mourning doves (2)

cardinal (female, 1)


Oh yes, of course there were squirrels, too.
Tuesday, 28 October 2008
Sedum purpureum - 100 Species Challenge

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The sedum flowers are clusters of tiny buds, giving the plant a pink broccoli-look. Buds are less than 1/4" and light green in colour when they first appear, gradually developing pink tips. The pink spreads as the flower grows, with full flowering coming in late summer and fall. Come late October, the flowers begin to dry on the stems.
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